If you contemplate arranged marriages...the thought process, I would think, for the couple is one of acceptance of family values and traditions that the union created is in the best interest of all involved. The couple agree on some level...they do have a choice.
A different adventure ensues. They begin their adventure on the wedding day...the commitment day. They flirt and and there is a certain innocence there and a tremendous amount of respect and romance then begins ....the dance of their commitment and future...it is written or so stated...you are there for life...you do not entertain the "emotionalism" that is involved in other marriages...you have chosen and now you have some goals...depending on your culture.... is their love different? is it love? I wonder....how different is the bond for this couple.
I believe there is a universal percentage of us that walk away all to quickly from our marriages and we do not really choose wisely and oftentimes allow our physical attractions to lead us down a path that is not best suited for us.
The growth comes from working it out and not running out...however, what criteria are we using to choose our partners...the key lies in establishing that criteria and then searching for that individual that fits...much like an arranged marriage....
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